“Though one may be overpowered by another, two can withstand him. And a threefold cord is not quickly broken.”– Ecc 4:12
God is in the center and holds your relationship together. Because marriage can be sex, money, children, even escape centered and that leads toxic environment, unhappy relationship and even divorce. Christ is needed to be that third fold that holds your marriage strong. Your spiritual life will reflect in your microclimate in marriage.
“Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married” – By Gary Chapman
Talks About questions that are found at the end of Chapter 11
How do you understand a Christian marriage?
Are you baptized with the Holy Spirit? When?
Are you a dedicated Christian? Why do you think so?
Who is God to you and Where is your relationship with Him?
How have you experienced that God is your source (Specific Situation)?
How will you both serve God, and fulfil His will for you?
What will you do together in order to grow you relationship with God?
Book: “Spiritual Disciplines for the Christian Life” – Donald S. Whitney