As believers in God, you understand that your actions are the light to the world. Church and Ministry is a big part of your life. And you must be active in the Body of Christ. Also, work and your career is a big part of your daily life. At times, work can take massive amounts of time from your spouse. Hobbies can take a priority when you have that free time to spend to yourself. All these things can damage your relationship if not managed properly and in love.



Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married” – By Gary Chapman

Chapter 6


Talks About questions that are found at the end of Chapter 6

What will we do as our service with our home church? Be specific.

How can I help my spouse to be the body of Christ? What about myself? 

What is my vision and desire to do in church? Pray together about it.

What time will you “Block Off” just to spend time with your wife/husband?

How can my spouse keep me accountable to make sure I spend time with her/him?

What are some of my hobbies? Does my future spouse know them yet?

How can I help my spouse in his/her hobbies?

Book: “The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People”- Stephen R. Covey