“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”– Eph 5:25
During the last few decades our culture has redefined the meaning and responsibilities of men and women in society and in the home. Many men are confused and insecure. Many do not know how to act in the home. Consequently, they do not lead effectively, or they do not even try. Increasingly, many men are becoming passive in the home. They’ve decided that the easiest thing to do is nothing. The simplest thing—with the smallest risk—is to stay on the fence with both feet firmly planted in mid-air and let the wife do it. When a man is married to a strong wife who will take over, he often lets her do just that. In order to take the place of a head in the structure, it is necessary to subordinate yourself to Christ completely as He submitted himself to His Father in all things (Phil 2:8-11). The centurion understood this: everyone was listening to him because he was obedient to his superior (Math 8:9).
“Things I Wish I’d Known Before We Got Married” – By Gary Chapman
Talks About questions that are found at the end of Chapter 12
How do you understand the concept of a Godly husband?
Are you ready to take responsibility of a Husband that God wants you to be? Why?
What do you do now that reflects characters of a good husband? What will you start?
In which way will you love and care your future wife? What if she is
disrespectful how will you show her love than? What is she sick?
Your wife is mad about not letting her buy something, how will you respond in a loving and caring way?
As a laeder, What will be the vision for your future family? 5 years, 10 years, 25 years etc. (Goals)